Why waste your energy on someone who only sees you when it is convenient for him? He’ll show up for sex, a little cash and broken promises. Stop making excuses for this loser. He doesn’t have your best intentions at heart; he’s using you and every woman that crosses his path! Next time he “stops by,” look that idiot in the face and tell him “shop is closed! It will not be reopened for business!”
7 deadly sins and your relationship 06/17 by The Black Womans Guide To Love | Blog Talk Radio.
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(Real Talk) Ladies, I just answered a question on Black Parents United ( please support): Is it appropriate to allow your boyfriend ( not the father) to discipline your child/children? (paraphrased) This is a pet peeve of mine. How could you allow a man ,that you are dating/boyfriend, to put his hands on your child? If he is not the father or your husband, you are out of line!!! We read online and hear on the news everyday about children being severely abused, tortured and even killed by a non- parent. MOTHERS protect your children. I realize there are different scenarios but you should set boundaries. If you are married to a man who is not the biological father, there needs to be a discussion and parameters set as to how/who disciplines the child/children. There are some excellent step-fathers out there who are loving and nurturing so kudos to you!!! But, this post is in reference to abusive boyfriends and sometimes step-fathers. Ladies, don’t EVER forget that your role is to protect your children!!! ( I am not trying to offend anyone; I am speaking out of love and being a voice for children.)
P.S. I would be in jail smoking cigarettes and I have asthma!!! You mess with my kids, I am going to have a state issued number across my chest!
(Real Talk) Ladies, do you really know your worth? Do you recognize the red flags? If you are not getting what you need, then it’s time to say BYE BYE!!! Don’t try to force a relationship to work! If he is a liar, only sees you at night (at your place), you can only call at certain times, he hasn’t introduced you to his close friends and family and he’s asking for money then the answer is in your face. You are “worth more than jewels” so why would you settle for that “creepin” mentality! Learn to cut your loses. A manipulative man can spot a vulnerable woman a mile away. Get your act together and kick that loser to the curb!!!!
Bring the spice back in your relationship! We can’t get complacant and think because we snagged the man that our work in done. NO, candle light dinners, long walks, looking into his eyes and “dessert” are things that make your relationship lasts. Do some of the things that he enjoys sometimes. Buy a sexy outfit, have a weekend get-a-way-nice hotel, go to the mountains, a sporting event, or “bless” your spare bedroom are some great ideas for making “Daddy” smile!!!!
Single ladies-when you want to be in a relationship make sure you don’t settle. Take inventory of what you want and also the KNOW the deal breakers in a mate. Compatability is very important. Check his credit score, see if he is gainfully employed, has a relationship with God, nurturing, loving, do you want a man with/without children etc. More importantly, you need to be free of any past hurts or drama before you enter a relationship. Spend time working on you! You are your most valuable asset!!!
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Get Your Groove Back- Ladies, we are the most beautiful creatures on the face of this earth. We were conceived from Adam’s rib because God did not want Adam (man) to be alone. So, do you realize how much power we have been given to be women, mothers, sisters, aunts, grandmothers, mothers, entrepreneurs , businesswomen, etc. Let our lights shine as the beauty of the rising sun. We are held in high esteem but we must take our roles seriously. It is an honor to be created for the purpose of being a mate to a wonderful man, provider, friend, lover, confidant and husband. Rise to the occasion. Be proud of being a WOMAN!!!
Today, I wanted to lighten the mood and add some humor to the series Women and Relationships. You are welcome to add to my list of Funny Things Women Should Know About Men.
1. When you are going to the bathroom at night, make sure the lid is DOWN because 9 times out of 10 it is UP and you don’t want your bottom wet! Remedy: cut the light on.
2. All men hate to hear the infamous words, “We need to talk.”
3. Men hate to go shopping with their ladies. So, they wait outside of the store and people watch or play games on the phone. It’s funny because you can tell if a man is ready to go by the expression on his face.
4. If you want to break up with a man just tell him you want to get married and have his babies.
5.Most men who claim to be your platonic friend is a bunch of hogwash. Trust me he has other motives in mind.
6. He heard you the first time. Let your words merinade. If you repeat yourself, he is now ignoring you. Move along.
7.Men hate matching outfits. That is so 70’s. LOL!!!
8. If you want to go on a shopping spree, ask your husband for the credit card while he’s watching sports. He will reach in his pocket,pull out his wallet and hand it to you without taking his eyes off the game. It works every time!
9. Men won’t admit it but they like sappy movies, too!
10. Men always give one word answers. For example,
“How are you hunny?
“Fine.”
“How was your day?
“Fine.”
” My parents are coming to visit for a week.”
“No!”
Enjoy!!!!
RSWY
